What are your thoughts on sex games?

I have never tried using sex games or sex dice during play. I was curious to people’s thoughts on if they enjoyed it

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We tried both and didn’t really like them. :face_with_peeking_eye:

Especially the dice didn’t do much for us.

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I think foreplay is fine :grinning_face_with_smiling_eyes: when you’re in the situation and don’t have time to pay attention to the game.

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See. I was wondering if it made things more awkward.

Fair. But playing a game to add more depth sounded fun.

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I’ve never played any sex games using dice or cards that were meant for such things. But I’ve indulged in strip hide and go seek and strip video games, both of which are fun, flirty and a bit of mood setter if traditional sex games aren’t your cup of tea.
Sometimes it’s fun to do things to your partner while they play one of their favorite games to see how long they can concentrate on the game before caving and paying more attention to you.

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Imma need some more info on this “strip hide and go seek”. I am great at that game and I totally would want to play.

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Well it was during college with a group of friends I had one semester at their group house, and something I genuinely didn’t see coming ><“. The evening started out with a few drinks and they tried including me in strip Mario Kart, which was apparently not an uncommon thing for them to do once in awhile. However, I was very rusty in the Mario Kart department, and was very quickly losing innocent items to take off while everyone else remained clothed. So, for my sake, they were super kind and switched to another game which was also somehow not uncommon for them to play… strip hide and seek. It’s been several years since this incident so my memory is a bit fuzzy but I believe the rules were… if you were found within an allotted amount of time you lost an article of clothing and the game didn’t end til everyone was nude. The best part was playing at night in total darkness because we laughed sooo hard that the black guy in our group was able to literally sit on a couch in the middle of the room and not get found lol. He was also somehow missed when behind a door one round, and somehow during another while holding a Captain America shield in front of his junk lol. It was one of the weirdest, wildest, and funniest times despite being so awkward and strange at the start. It’s one thing to do such things with just you and one other person, it’s another to be in a group of people that can somehow make you feel so comfortable that you’re willing to let your guard down to such an extent and still feel comfortable around them all afterwards. ><”
To anyone reading this post, don’t sweat the concept of any type of sex games overall… It will most definitely be weird/awkward at first but as things progress, you’ll find that other things will naturally progress with it. Go back to basics of truth or dare or even tic-tac-toe lol. It doesn’t have to be an overly sexual thing of roll this die and lick her/him here or there. Just be playful and yourself!
One partner of mine had a love/hate relationship with the fact that I liked being a playful smart ass during our bedroom activities (I’ve found that I haven’t been that much of a prick to anyone since or prior xD), but at some stage in our dynamic we made it to a point where we had made a game out of attempting to say really retarded things to one another in a semi serious/sensual manner to purposely try to throw the other off. To this day… I cannot say the word “squirt” without giggling ridiculously because it came up as a challenge word to try to use in a serious but stupid manner. So I would wait til he tried to concentrate on some move he thought was hot shit and try to whisper in his ear, and the restraint of me attempting to stiffle the laughter made the whole moment overall more enjoyable. He felt proud of himself if he successfully found a move that made me quit being a prick for a moment, like it was trophy. ><" If you find that you can be comfortable and quirky with someone in general, see what you can do with it in the bedroom and what it brings to that table!

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That sounds so fun! I think I am going to use the “Strip Hide and Seek” in the future. That was really cool that you were able to do it with a group of people that made you feel safe and comfortable.

I really like what you said about the games just being fun or simple to start off with. Not being overtly sexual or anything. I think that is a really good take on things. It lessens the expectations and allows you to just have fun with it and enjoy the moment.

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They can be cool and sexy and add to the excitement for some people, but in my opinion, they’re boring and get nowhere. What are you going to do when your dice say suck on your partners back? There are too many weird combinations for me and the cards and everything else get mundane and they start to feel like a chore. I don’t want to answer a bunch of random sex questions when we should have already had multiple conversations on what we both do and don’t enjoy.

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That is very fair. I have seen that there are times when the options are really applicable to sex.

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I have several and have found when entertaining couples that they work really well in the “getting to know you” vein of conversation and lead to silly foreplay and fun touching.

That’s a good idea. I didn’t think about it in that regard. I totally would want to try that in a group setting like that.

I love them. With very limits it becomes amazing

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Which one has been your favorite?

I’d really have to admit, truth and dare no limits

Oo very nice!

I have tried several different sex games, with varying results. Some of them have been better than others. I think they are great as an ice-breaker - to sorta get things going. But they can be a little repetitive or boring (depending on where you are in your sexual journey). My husband actually modified some of the board games and the dice games to suit us. He changed the activities to things we knew we liked doing for sure. That made it more fun. We have also played them with a third person - that definitely opened the door for more fun. Most recently, we played Sexology with another couple. The game was fun, but also a little awkward. It probably would have been more enjoyable if the other couple had been more open. :wink:

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That’s a good idea! I definitely have modifiedgames in order to better suit the circumstances. I like the idea of adding other people to the game.

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Another couple that is open would be such a great thing to play a game with. Drinks would help for sure. We all love our spouse but seeing another couple be passionate would be exciting for me.

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