I wanted to open up a real convo here—sharing what’s real.
We all have that “one” toy that shifted the way we think about pleasure. For me, it was the first time I tried a suction toy. I thought it was overhyped until I legit “saw stars” within minutes. I didn’t even realize how disconnected I had been from my own body until that night. It wasn’t just physical—it felt like I had given myself permission to fully enjoy, without guilt, without shame.
Since then, I’ve been more confident with partners, more curious about what I like, and more “me”.
So I’m curious…
What was the toy that changed something for you?
Let’s keep it honest. No judgment, no pressure—just real talk.
I looove my clit sucker! It’s a cheap Satisfyer One Night Stand. It’s not designed for battery replacement, but I open it up and change it anyway. It really is amazing I’m thinking about getting a proper suction toy though.
As for your question, honestly, the njoy Pure Wand has been the standout for me. It’s our first (and currently only) premium/luxury toy. It always feels special when I use it, like a moment where I’m really treating myself with something different.
Aphrodite
My first purchase - Jessa Rhoades’ pocket pussy, I personally was really vanilla and never thought I’d buy a toy until a date asked me if I was into toys she convinced me to buy one and ever since that day I have always wanted more!
It took us a while before it really clicked…
We started with a few cheaper toys here and there - one online shop had these 2-for-1 deals, so we just grabbed whatever sounded fun. But they were always cheap and quality wise really bad.
We were always reading reviews, but things really took off when we got our first proper, high-quality toy: The Handy. And right after that, the Swan bullet.
From there… the collection kind of started growing on its own
I’m thinking about getting a proper suction toy though.
