Okay, real talk — I used to have zero idea what a prostate orgasm even was. “Male G-spot”? Never crossed my mind. That is… until I had to go to the hospital for a prostate check. 
The doctor needed to collect a prostate fluid sample for testing. So there I was, pants down, positioned on the exam table like you’re probably imagining… and boom — he nailed the spot with such clinical precision that I blacked out for half a second. My brain went blank, my whole body stiffened, and for a moment, I felt like I was floating in space.
Now to be clear — this wasn’t a full-blown orgasm. It was just… the gates of a new universe cracking open. 
And naturally, that moment got me curious as hell.
I started reading up. What even IS a prostate orgasm? How do you reach it? Can I do it myself? Spoiler: YES. I got the right toy, tried it at home… and holy hell. That “floating brain” feeling came back with a vengeance. This time, with a full-body release that felt 1000x more intense than any regular climax. 
Here’s what I learned (the hard way 
):
- First time? Go solo. Unless you’ve got a very skilled, very trusted partner.
- Lube is NOT optional. Use lots of it. Like, more than you think.
- Get a toy made specifically for the prostate. Look for one with a curved tip — trust me, that angle is everything.
- Prostate orgasms are NOTHING like penile ones. They’re deeper, rougher, more… primal. And whatever you do — don’t try it standing up.
So yeah. Shoutout to my urologist for unknowingly changing my life. 
Have you ever accidentally discovered the P-spot? Got tips, favorite toys, or wild stories? Drop ’em below. Let’s normalize the conversation and share the joy.
Let me explain why I need to go to the hospital for this check-up. 
Many years ago, my wife and I decided we wanted to have a child (our little one is now 7 years old!). Before that, we had both been quite busy and weren’t planning on starting a family yet. But one day, we changed our minds and started thinking seriously about it.
My wife suggested that before trying to conceive naturally, we should both get medical check-ups to make sure everything was okay. This particular test is one of those check-ups. Of course, we also did other tests like blood work, a sperm analysis, and so on.
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