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Many people decide to wear chastity devices for many different reasons.
Generally it’s either a Dominance play, where a Domme will remove their sub’s ability to have an erection or orgasm. This exerts Her control over something a man holds very dear. Their cock.
It could also be for, or as well as S&M play. As when a cock tries to get hard it really hurts as it’s constricted, and as it grows it pulls the balls with it.
My journey started a long time ago, when I was still in the closet. I was single at the time, had no Domme and was in a very submissive mind space. For me, it was about control (but I had no one to give a key to) and I LOVED the pain. MY pre-HRT bits we average size and I started with a cheap plastic cage that was like a Lego cage! It had a dozen different back rings and spacers. It also had a metal padlock that rattled on the plastic sheath.
I settled on a 50mm back ring with an 80mm sheath. I enjoyed the psychological torture of needing to cum but not being able to as much as I enjoyed the physical pain.
I also discovered I could cum in it! I did this by holding my AC magic wand to it and making the whole thing vibrate!
Even then, my brain said “this is how your clit should cum”.
i started downsizing the back ring till I was on a 40mm. Then eventually the sheath too til it was 60mm. But eventually, whilst wanding the back ring snapped! I left it for quite a while after that.
It wasn’t until I came out as trans I started to wear it again. Soon enough though I realised I didnt trust in plastic, so I invested in a House of Denial S73S metal cage with a 40mm backring and a 45mm metal sheath. This felt better for a long time. Metal cages also have a barrel lock instead of a padlock, so no more rattling!
But as my Dysphoria grew worse. It was still too long, to penis like.
I tried to downsize again for a HoD S237 nub with a 22mm sheath, but I had problems with it so thankfully I worked out a better one for an exchange. A FLAT S239!
Even smaller! No room for growth at all! I look down now and it’s as good as I will get it until my op.
I started for purely Dominance and maschism with a 50mm ring and 80mm sheath.
Now? I wear primarily to cope with my dysphoria, with the maschism as an amazing bonus with a 40mm ring and a FLAT none sheath!!!
And when I put it on, I feel happy.
sometimes I wonder will I get into this at some point but I just can’t see myself in Chasity
